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You Bring your Whole Day into your Gaming Lobby

You Bring your whole day into your gaming lobby You Bring Your Whole Day Into the Lobby Rocket League is supposed to be the game I play for fun. I'm over 30. I have a wife, kids, responsibilities, and plenty of real things available to make me question myself. Rocket ...
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You Bring your Whole Day into your Gaming Lobby

August 25, 2026

You Bring your whole day into your gaming lobby You Bring Your Whole Day Into the Lobby Rocket League is supposed to be the game I play for fun. I’m over 30. I have a wife, kids, responsibilities, and plenty of real things available to make me question myself. Rocket League should be where I…

I Planned to Shower. Now I’m Writing a Blog Post About My Hernia Instead.

July 11, 2025

Balancing Chaos I Planned to Shower. Now I’m Writing a Blog Post About My Hernia Instead.   The shower has been running for at least 15 minutes. The water is ice cold now. Because instead of getting in, I did what I always do-I got distracted. It started with a simple plan. I was going…

The ADHD Spiral: How a Dentist Stabbed Me, and I Still Sat Through the Appointment

July 11, 2025

Balancing Chaos The ADHD Spiral: How a Dentist Stabbed Me, and I Still Sat Through the Appointment   It All Started With a Pacifier… Not mine. (Though, let’s be real, I probably needed one more than anyone.) Back in January 2021, I was the general manager of a pizza joint-a gig that’s basically a daily…

The Weight of Dismissal: When Progress Feels Like a Ladder

July 11, 2025

Balancing Chaos The Weight of Dismissal: When Progress Feels Like a Ladder I used to think quitting was just a bad habit. I’d start something, hit a wall, and walk away. Too much criticism made me shut down. If I couldn’t do something perfectly, why even try? Lately, I’ve been trying to quit quitting. Pushing…